Katie July 17, 2012, 9:42 am
We agree with you… i dunno. Its difficult. I simply know personally i couldnt just let your ex glare at me for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I’ve done absolutely nothing to you. But thats just anyone I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt go out of my method to make an effort to speak to her, but if she sets the record right because of the gf, ideally she will turn her focus through the LW being a concern into the man being the matter, which will be what’s going on.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july
And in addition, just exactly just what can you want to bet they talk all the time that he is feeding his new girlfriend the whole “crazy ex” routine to explain why? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?
Nadine 17, 2012, 9:52 am july
I could realise why you’ll believe means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, maybe perhaps perhaps not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats just a complicator. The LW can simply get a handle on her very own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and being irritating. Their relationship with brand new GF is none of her company, and frankly, the 2 girls don’t need to be buddies after all. It might you should be yet another backlink to the man when it comes to LW, that is wanting to cut ties that are emotional.
Katie July 17, 2012, 9:54 am
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I familiar with be buddies using this set of dudes whom once had such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy to them after a few weeks and I’d get really astonished, cos they seemed therefore normal in my opinion? Then we realised it wasn’t the girls, its the people. Plus the girls had been all simply normal those who, you realize, desired to determine if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:04 am
I do feel harmful to this GF that is new. She deserves to possess a guy’s attention that is full. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless dreams intensely about her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW as the man is telling her a lot of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:09 am
I’m bad she needs to look out for herself for her too, but. Its difficult being the very first gf after a long relationship, but that is why many people go into these with their eyes spacious. Oh and the man has to cease dropping “But We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real means the crossdresser does it in Little Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands which he features a GF, he could be simply to locate a response each time he claims it. He wishes the LW become like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and come back to me” if you have a GF,
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am
Yea, its like whenever i was in twelfth grade and me personally and my boyfriend would separation every single other week, and then he would “accidently” we would fight and get back together text me or something just so.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 2:45 pm july
@katie, hahaha “just so we would sdc reddit fight and acquire straight right straight back together”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 10:05 am
I’ve said here a whole lot, if the man whips out of the word “crazy” I operate one other means. I’m sure therefore lots of men whom utilize that word to hide with regards to their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why individuals would phone somebody crazy into the place that is first. I recently state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The very fact on it, makes me think you may be the one that likes to stir the muck that you put a “crazy” label.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Also, if you’re prepared to phone somebody crazy, wouldn’t which means that you will be kinda crazy as well?
Rilooyah 17, 2012, 4:44 pm july
So real! As soon as the” that is“crazy down, Im operating one other method. I believe it absolutely was stated above- whenever you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common constantly YOU, friend.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:21 am july
To be honest, that it’s partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that when this occurred to her she most likely will be upset about any of it too, yet somehow she continues to respond to this dudes calls even though he keeps stating that he’s dreaming about her, and all sorts of of this bull shit.
Lets_be_honest 17, 2012, 10:26 am july
Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop answering. Don’t talk for this woman since your simply likely to cause drama. You need to just understand he’s maybe maybe maybe not your boyfriend as well as if you nevertheless like their attention, the truth that you understand he’s got a girlfriend is causing you to a negative man in this too.
Katie 17, 2012, 10:35 am july
This is certainly a point that is great you dudes. I didnt think about it like this.
So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. You have to do it if he is not willing to be.
Painted_lady July 17, 2012, 2:17 pm
Amen bestie – we accept you about talking towards the gf. That knows exactly what this guy has stated concerning the LW to justify their speaking many times, but even though the relationship is none of the company, the fact that the LW therefore the girlfriend that is new met now i believe enables the LW some freedom. If I’d been in a situation where a pal brought somebody around that I’d learned about and wished to be friends with (I’m likely to assume that the LW wishes that? ) and it also went horribly, i may touch base and get, hey, I’m therefore sorry that went defectively. She does not necessarily need certainly to state, “Hey, so that your boyfriend happens to be saying that is___ in my experience and he’s the only calling, in which he explained you had been fine with this particular, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went poorly, I happened to be beneath the impression you had been ok with our being buddies, but i recently discovered I’m maybe maybe maybe not fine with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:37 am july
I’dn’t speak to the gf about any of it. If We had been dating some body for just two months the very last thing I would wish is the ex of three years reaching off to me personally. And simply to inform you you respect her relationship? I would personally think you had been bullshitting me personally and head that is playing. Just simply Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex you don’t wish to hear from him for a time, then keep them alone. Actually they probably won’t workout because you might be nevertheless into the photo (which does not do great things for a unique relationship), but allow them work that out themselves.
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july
Oh in addition, that we leave immediately if I were the new girlfriend and my bf and I ran into his ex at a bar I would also demand. It is therefore uncomfortable. Every person pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely okay if your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have actually to be OK with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of 36 months.
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:28 am july